Dear Mum,
Have you ever thought that you were helping someone, then later you realize that they actually helped you? You think you are making them smile, but they make you smile, and you discover that you needed that smile more than them…
Well, Happy New Week! I have no doubt that you are doing well, especially with the kind of people who visited you over the weekend, you must be beaming with joy…and so I’m I. My Saturdays never cease to be memorable. We had been planning for last Saturday for more than a month. So we rose up to the occasion; spending a day at Help Kenya Children Rescue Centre.
Ngong…that place is so far from the CBD, it felt as if I was coming home. How do people live there and still work at Mombasa Road? Nairobians have drama. Or should we say Ngong-arians? Those road trips where you pay 50 shillings and in your heart, you know very well that you have conned the conductor. They deserve more, but you can’t give it to them, because you know very well that when it rains, you can as well pay ten times of that…not by choice of course.
“We are constituted so that simple acts of kindness, such as giving to charity or expressing gratitude, have a positive effect on our long-term moods. The key to the happy life, it seems, is the good life: a life with sustained relationships, challenging work, and connections to community”, Paul Bloom
We were welcomed by Monica Nguata, one of the most kind-hearted ladies I have met. She serves those children with every beat of her heart. You should see how she hugs them when they come from school. They call her Auntie, but from the look of it, she is more than that to them. Then there was Benson Ruoro, they call him Uncle Ben. He never gets tired of playing with the boys, carrying the younger ones and being their role model. Kara! A volunteer from the U.S.A. You would so easily love her. She is ready to help, always asking what else she can do.
And she has that spark! A smile that tells you that she has something you don’t have. A brightness in her eyes, you don’t need Meta-Physics to know that she loves her life. You can see the same spark in Monica’s eyes…Uncle Ben’s, and each of those kids. They spend their days serving and loving others, teaching, mentoring and giving themselves away to those children.
If you want stories, carry several handkerchiefs and make your way to that children’s home. Then sit down with them and listen. Their stories will blow your mind. Better still, watch them. Despite everything they have been through, they are positive. They keep hope alive. They live life, one day at a time. Oh you should see them singing! They clap with all their energy, the girls can’t help jumping and dancing to God, they are so full of life. They are happy.
You and me might think that we have more than them, but shock on us: they have everything. You see those smiles right there? They made us smile. The spark in their eyes triggered so much hope, joy and peace in our hearts, that we couldn’t help but light up. So guess what…they helped us! We went all the way to Ngong to be helped by those kids.
“No one has ever become poor by giving.” ― Anne Frank, diary of Anne Frank: the play
Help Kenya Children Rescue Centre has children of all ages, and you can join the Women of Honor Mentoring Initiative by becoming a mentor to one of those children, ages 13-18. We need both male and female mentors. Interested? Let me know… You will be surprised how fulfilling it is to walk with them in their journey.
Enjoy the week…and keep the spark!
Ndindafah